I have a secret for all of you. Are you ready, you can't tell anyone OK? You may not believe it when I tell you it though, I guess it comes down to a pure and simple fact.
True Joy can't be found in someone else, it first must be found in you. The misconception today is to find true happiness, you must be with the right person (your better half, your soul mate), but you will be full of happiness for a time, but it will fade and you will wonder if you made a mistake. The truth is, when you are able to be happy with who you are, you will be able to find joy in life. It is when you can look in the mirror and not be disgusted with what you see, but realize that you are made just how you are. Except it and yes it doesn't mean we don't improve ourselves, but it does mean that we learn to love who we are. Learning and growing along the way.
You can't find what you are looking for in others, first you must find it in yourself. Except the fact that you have joy in you, except that you have peace and be thankful for it. I am so thankful that I see this now. I don't need someone else to fill my life, I just need to except where I am. I need to except myself and learn to live with who I am. I am thankful for the joy I have found and that is why I wanted to share it with you.
Find joy in who you are and you will be able to share it with others. Then the relationship you have, will not just seem like something is missing, because it isn't the other person, look at yourself to change. Stop looking for them to change.
Have a wonderful night.
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