I experienced the darkest day, that I have experienced in a long time. Yesterday was an extremely difficult day for me. I was focusing on the circumstances and I was avoiding looking at the good in everything.

In life we have many choices, each day is full of choices. We tend to look at the circumstances and let them define us, when in fact it isn't the circumstances that should define us at all. Circumstances will change, our thoughts will change, where we are will change and so how can we let the circumstances define us? Take a step back and look at your emotional patterns of the day? How much of those are because of the circumstances you find yourself in? It is time to stop basing our emotions on circumstances and let life be defined by what we want instead of what we are experiencing.

I will talk more about how we as humans have issues with the circumstances all around us. From when we feel love, when we feel happy and what we can do to control it. We tend to say our hearts do not lie, but the truth of the matter is, they do lie. It is basing our emotions on our circumstances, instead of seeing the truth that is just waiting for us.

I am creating this blog, to follow my life. The changes, the effects, both positive and negative. We go through life not knowing which way is up and most of the time the help we look for is not their and we search for it in the wrong places. Who am I to say what the right place is for you, but I want to share with others where I found the answers and the answers I found. I don't know if anyone will find this blog, but if anyone does, it may be helpful for you as it is has been a life journey for me.

My life journey has lasted several years and the pitfalls that we experience may not be identical, but may be similar. Books you have to buy, but posting here is free. Life is not about me, nor does my past define who I am today, it just reminds me of where I don't want to go again.