The Law of Attraction

Have you ever heard about the Law of Attraction? I believe that it is real, I believe it because it has happened to me more times then I may even realize. Let me explain a little about my own experiences.

The way I was before my wife left me was different then I am now. I didn't see life how I see it now. I was very negative, I thought that she was going to leave me, I thought that everyone she came in contact with would steal her away. Maybe you think that is nice, but instead of being a positive influence I would feed into the negative. I would bring up all the reasons why she would leave me and in the end, do you know what happened, she did leave me. She left me because I was negative, because I was self centered and I am sure the list goes on. Do I like admitting it all to you, no not really, but it goes to the whole Law of Attraction. The more we focus on something, the more it will happen.

The more we allow ourselves to focus on negative things in our lives the more we will become just the negative. I could remain negative about where I find myself today, but that will not get me anywhere. The more I saw I am what I believe to be, the more I saw that I can not be the man I once was. I had to change, not just my way of thinking, but my actions, my mind set and so many other things. I believe that we can go through life floating from one thing to another, we don't have anchors, we don't have roots, or we can plant ourselves and truly believe in so much more. I believe we are what we believe and if we believe to be evil, we will be evil. The more we believe in the negative the more negative will happen. If we believe we will not find love, guess what we will not find love. When we believe something there is nothing stopping us, but us. The more we believe the stronger we become.

Change your perspective and change your circumstances. Keep your perspective the same and you will not change anything. You will struggle and fight to see what life has, but in the struggles you will grow tired like so many other people, you will grow accustom to not wanting anything different because it is to difficult. Isn't it time instead of thinking it will be difficult to change, we realize that anything is possible and that yes even you can change. Why are you fighting change so much? It is because we know what to expect and we grow to expect our lives being crappy and so much else.

Draw a box on a sheet of paper. You could make it look 3D, now draw a stick figure in the box. Is that you? Have you placed yourself in a box, afraid to see what is outside, afraid of living life for what is around you? The answers you seek are not in that box, the past is in that box and that is it. It is time to take that drawing and draw a door, maybe a door is to big, maybe a window and open it, stick your head out the window and see that what is outside. We limit ourselves based on our fears, based on the walls we have built to keep others out. We are afraid of everyone around us and maybe even afraid of ourselves. It is time to slowly step out of the box you have placed yourself in and see life for not what it was, but what is waiting for you.

The answers you seek are not found in that box. What do you believe today? Right it out, believe and know that even you can change. Stop limiting yourself based on what other people think, start experiencing life, start believing in yourself.