Friday, September 20, 2013

Fear, Loneliness and Doubt

A house divided will surely fall, but one built on a solid foundation will remain, will grow and flourish. A house built on fear will crumble, build your relationships on a friendship, let it grow and blossom and soon it will be an unshakable house.

We humans love letting the big three into our lives, but the more we entertain them, the stronger the hold is on our lives, on who we want to be. How many times have you thought you did not deserve love, or you feared failure our you felt defeated. Did you doubt the love you had or have for your partner? Did you feed that doubt wondering why you married in the first place? Many of us do that, but what we do with it that matters. Will you continue to let the big three win, or is it time to be done with them? I have felt the loneliness take hold and drive out the hope, the grace, but as I struggle to see the truth I would continue to let the fear in, I would doubt what I have heard and seen and in doing so I let failure take hold.

Time for the big three has passed, but what is here now is the truth. The truth will set you free and you will be free indeed. It is time to face our fears, admit our doubts and know that the loneliness will pass and what will replace it is hope for a new day.

No one is to far gone and yes there is hope enough for all. It is time to stop feeding the big three, they are not your friends and they do not get to stay. A house divided amongst itself will fall, but one built on truth, hope, love and all the other ones will stand. Is it time for your house to stand, build it brick by brick and stand with your partner.

Love is a choice, today chose to LOVE the one you are with, stop looking for reasons you can't, or why you don't deserve it, see it as a gift and see the hope for a solid marriage, relationship and more. Don't give in any longer, for today stand and be counted, not for the three, but for who you are becoming.

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