Love

We need to understand with love comes pain. It is hard to understand that saying unless we truly love someone. In order to love, we must first know how to love ourselves. In order to trust, we must first learn to trust ourselves, can you imagine what I may say next? In order to forgive, we must first learn to forgive ourselves. We are unable to understand these words until we put them into meaning in ourselves. To love ourselves does not mean that we are self centered, it means that we can look in the mirror, it means that our actions line up with the words we speak. It also means that for our past choices and mistakes that we have let them go, we have forgiven ourselves and by doing so we learn to forgive others.

We are in a blame society. Isn't it time we start taking responsibility for our own mistakes? I believe it is and the sooner we can do that, the sooner we understand the things above. Stop looking to others to blame and start excepting the responsibility we need to in ourselves.

I believe it is time we stand, stand up and be counted. Stop being a wimp, looking for the easy way out and stand up, because today is the day to start making differences.

I was watching a video yesterday about a man that was born with no arms and no legs. He is goes into schools, into churches and gives motivational speeches. He loves people because he has learned to love himself. Isn't it time for us to see we can love ourselves, we have arms and legs and still can't find happiness. Isn't happiness found the same way love, trust and forgiveness is found? Start with yourself and let the garden bloom. One flower at a time. You will be amazed.