Complications

Today I was thinking about life and how complicated it can be. I am going to just put my random thoughts down and I hope you are able to follow. I believe we have a choices in what we do, we make life what it is. If that is correct, then we make life complicated by the choices we make or that we do not make.

When our relationships are complicated, is it then our choice to make them uncomplicated, to make them what they should be not what they are being? If that is the case then what are the complications and why are they there?

We tend to make the things more complicated then they have to be. We put everything in boxes. We have a box for junk, we have a box for life, we have a box for our relationships, our friendships and so on. Why do we have so many boxes? Why do we create boxes at all? When we want life to open up, what do we have to do? We have to think outside of the box, we have to stop putting people in boxes, things in boxes like we want to move them so quickly from point A to point B. I know easier said then done, but today it is about thinking outside the box. It is about stepping out of the box you built for yourself, a box that brought you shelter and safety and it is time that you see that life is not in the box. Life is outside and in order to step away from the complications, you are going to need to step outside of the box.

Yes, I am actually more talking to myself then maybe anyone else, but my life can't be defined by a box, it is defined by me looking outside of the box. It is defined by me seeing the answers are their, but they are not in the box.

Today, take a minute and think, do you define your life by boxes? Have you put people in boxes? Maybe it is time we burn the boxes and see life for what it can be, instead of what we defined it as.