Yes things change that make it harder, but is it really harder or is it just because we are humans and want what comes easy to us? I believe it is the second part of that, what comes easy to us, is focusing only on ourselves, what I want, what I can get, work, life, kids, work (I know I mentioned that already), but when we put all these things before our spouse, we forget that they are the most important or should be to us. Look around you, how many married couples are truly happy? If they are not happy, why not? When we focus just on what I can get, instead of what I can give, we miss the very fact that we want the same thing to be done with us. We want to feel the very thing we will not give someone we are with.
Isn't that just how it is? We don't want to give, we just want to get. Isn't it time to change the game? It is time to put the ones we are with back up to where they belong. Stop just thinking that it will happen, because it will not. You have to take the active role in doing this, you are the sole responsibility of this and if you do not do it? Well, who is to blame?
Time to grow up, smell the roses and enjoy your spouse, for you wouldn't be where you are today without them. Remember it isn't about you, it is more blessed to give than to receive. Don't stop giving and if you both do it, wow what a change you will make in your lives and others that are seeing it. There is nothing that is impossible, take the step and try it. It is so worth it.
Have a great day.
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