People

I find it fascinating how people are, they complain about others, but will not look at themselves. However, they are so caught up in themselves, they can't think of others. They see others with problems, but have no time to help out, because they are too busy with themselves. They are so self focused that they continue to miss the truth. 

They are so distracted, they can't see the issue is themselves. They want to blame others for their own issues. They will not look inward to see what they are portraying to other, they continue to blame blame and blame. 

I have said it many times before, but if you have a problem with someone, you have to look within, because more then likely, the problem you have with them, is because that same thing lives within you. 

If we think of ourselves as a ripple, we affect so many others with just how we are. The light we shine on others, is directly impacted by how we are. We have to be able to work on ourselves, changing ourselves affect the people around us. Why is it so hard to look within? Why can't we see the issue isn't the one closes to us, it is ourselves. Stop blaming and start changing. If we were quick to say what can I do, instead of what can they do, it would change the world. 

Can you imagine how others would be if they started saying, I am the issue, I don't need to feed off of someone else, I need to look within. We start changing ourselves, we start being the example. How many issues will take care of themselves. Stop blaming and start changing. Be the change you want to see in the world, be the person that God calls you to be. It doesn't matter what others are doing, God will judge you, it doesn't matter how they are being, what matters is how you are. 

The lesson we must learn, is how are my actions affecting others, how is my voice, how am I and what am I doing that needs to change. You can't look at how it will effect others, you have to look at what God wants. It doesn't matter what others say, it is what God says to you.

Next time you run across a problem with someone else, ask yourself, am I being the same way? Do I do this to other people? 10x's out of 10, the answer will be yes. Ask yourself what you can do to change you. Maybe nothing will change in the other person, but you will be able to understand why their actions affect you so much. Keep your eyes on Jesus.