Our focus changes slowly

I listen to this song and it is called a "Slow Fade". It talks about how if we introduce negatives or ad things into our relationships it slowly pulls us apart. It is so true, it is like telling one little lie, know what happens, soon that lie has grown. Their is no such thing as a little lie.

In our relationships, it is key to set our priorities, it is so easy to focus on the one we are with during easy times, but what happens when the times get hard. If we lose our focus, our thoughts start to wander. The more allow this to happen, the more that fade is happening.

You may wonder how to you keep your focus on the one you are with. Your thoughts go to what they are not or what they don't have. But when you place them at the top and say no person can be what they are to me. That means you don't compare anyone to them. When you struggle to do this, it comes down to choices. When something or someone creeps in, you must stop and change your perspective.

It is time to see that we are not all perfect and hard times will come into relationships, but are we going to run or are we going to stand. Today I urge you to stand. Don't let the slow fade happen to you and if it is, take a moment and recognize what it is and stand and turn from it.

The Song Lyrics:
Be careful little eyes what you see
It's the second glance that ties your hands as darkness pulls the strings
Be careful little feet where you go
For it's the little feet behind you that are sure to follow
It's a slow fade when you give yourself away
It's a slow fade when black and white have turned to gray
Thoughts invade, choices are made, a price will be paid
When you give yourself away
People never crumble in a day
It's a slow fade, it's a slow fade
Be careful little ears what you hear
When flattery leads to compromise, the end is always near
Be careful little lips what you say
For empty words and promises lead broken hearts astray
It's a slow fade when you give yourself away
It's a slow fade when black and white have turned to gray
Thoughts invade, choices are made, a price will be paid
When you give yourself away
People never crumble in a day
The journey from your mind to your hands
Is shorter than you're thinking
Be careful if you think you stand
You just might be sinking
It's a slow fade when you give yourself away
It's a slow fade when black and white have turned to gray
Thoughts invade, choices are made, a price will be paid
When you give yourself away
People never crumble in a day
Daddies never crumble in a day
Families never crumble in a day
End

Take a moment and think of where you are in your relationships. Is it time to stop the fade and to put your thoughts, your mind back on course. Today change starts with you. Don't say it can't happen or it is to late, because today is a new day. Turn your heart, mind away from what is causing you to fade ad focus on where you want to be. If it is a person, then cut them out of your life, if it is porn, or negative people, walk away, because you are stronger then they are ad today take a stand. Do you want to crumble or remain strong? Today make a choice and walk in it. Stick to it and believe.
Today is the first day of the rest of your life. Do not waiver, no more fence walking stick to the one you are with and set it in motion.

I posted this once before, but I wanted to post it again, because I think it is so important. This is one of the demons (life struggles) that I deal with daily. I fight not to let the fade start happening and it is just one of those things that will be a struggle for me until it isn't.