True Love

True love is something many people rarely experience, but true love does exist, but people are to afraid of the cost.

True love is surrendering ourselves, our wants, our needs for the person we love. People believe love is about themselves, but love asks for nothing, love gives all and in order to love, we have to be willing to lay down our lives, our wants for the one we love. It is not about me, love is much greater then one can imagine and the power of love is a complete union of two souls.

True love is letting go of the past, what he/she put you through, it is not making excuses for our actions it is saying plain and simple I was wrong. I didn't see that until it was to late. I cheated on my first wife for so many reasons, but I was wrong. My second wife I hurt because I wanted it my way, that is not love. Love forgets the past, love learns and grows and can you imagine if both of you let go of all the hurts and reconnected with the lessons you have learned, your bond your unity would be stronger then ever.

Wait I can hear it now, but Geoff. I know this is not easy to read, in fact you may be pissed off, but why are you mad? Love is greater then people realize. Men think sex is love, women think that connection is love, but know what is love. Love is surrendering the fact that if my wife thinks connection is love, then I need to connect and if she loves me and she surrenders the idea of connection and says OK love is sex, guess what happens, this incredible bond is beginning to form where, each of you put what the other wants first. No longer is it about myself, it is about her and with her it isn't the about her it is about me.

But Geoff this is easier said then done. Yep you are right, but remember that cost I was talking about? This is the cost of it all. We do not want to surrender who we are anymore, my identity, my thoughts, my love, me, me, me... Love isn't about me, it is about the person you love.