Maybe I am not the best one to talk about the above subject. I have learned a lot about myself in the last year plus when the choices I made were not about the other one I was with. I admit my failing and maybe in admitting what has happened in my life I can help you realize that in your relationships you have choices, they are your choices.
A few key points about relationships are you ready?
Where you put your time, money and focus will be where your heart goes. Have you ever noticed that? If you put all your time, work and energy into work, where does your heart want to be? If you focus on buying that car, you save and save for it, you have your heart set on receiving it. Do you see my point here? If you spend your extra time and energy in talking with another woman other then your wife, your heart will go towards that other person, you add confusion into your relationship, because no longer is your focus on the one you are with. Do you see the problem here? Have you ever looked at the ads of men seeking women or anything like that? It makes me mad when I see a man post, he is looking for a woman to talk with, because his wife isn't doing it for him. She isn't doing it because he is no longer focused on her. Do you see the issues here? It is plain and simply, yet we make it so confusing. Let me cover it again... Are you ready????
Where you put your time, money, energy, focus is where your heart will go. Start focusing on your wife, change your perspective and you change your circumstances.
Be thankful in all things. Stop focusing on the negative in your relationship. Have you noticed that you look at your relationship as how negative everything is? Stop looking for the pink elephant and start being thankful in what is happening. When you first met the man or woman you are with, do you remember being thankful for their laugh, their smile, or just being thankful for how they are. Stop looking for the negatives and start being thankful for what you have. Today it is about being thankful, stop asking for everything and start being thankful for everything you have. Stop asking your wife for her to do this or that and be thankful in all she does for you.
Be thankful in all things, start small and work up.
Do you get the idea of this whole relationship advice? If you change your perspective, you change your view point, you start to change and you see not what was not done, but all the things that have been done. Today is about change, do you see that? It is about being thankful it is about going above and beyond the call and taking the steps not to ruin what you have, but to build it and grow it into something so much more incredible.
One last thing for today, are you ready? Being thankful one day will not change your actions, or your wife's reactions. It will take time, build and let the relationship grow with you. Stop looking for change over night, not realistic, but put the time and energy back into your relationship and watch what happens.
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