Saturday, August 10, 2013

What is Love

Love is such a wonderful thing, but it also can be used to hurt. Love is so much more then a word. It is a choice. When we tell our kids we love them there is no grounds to how much or what they can and can not do. Some days they drive us crazy and push all our buttons, but we still love them. Some days it is a choice, but we continue to love them no matter what. Love is not just a feeling, it is not just a word, but more. True love asks for nothing in return, it is the absence of wants and it gives regardless.

When married, if both parties can see what love truly is, then it is no longer about a feeling or just a word it becomes an action, it flows through you words, your actions and even your reactions. Love surrenders the idea of always want and except that one will not always have. It gives just like we give our kids. Can you imagine a marriage full of unconditional love? I can and yes it can happen, but like everything it takes work.

Who is willing to do the work it takes to let the past go and see what today has for you? Today I see life for a brand new day and a brand new way. It is your choice and it can be full or it can be empty, but it is your choice to make, your decision. Do you believe today you can love unconditionally without asking for anything?

I have chosen to love without boundaries, to surrender my wants and see that love is greater then all of that. Today will you make the choice to love the one you are with and continue to strive to love no matter how hard.

Have a wonderful day.

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